There is a delightful tradition here in Puerto Rico. In this culture, the young actually respect their elderly citizens. One manifestation of this is the bendicion. A few days ago, I was enjoying lunch at a local bar/restaurant, with my very good friend, Mike. Like me, Mike has joined the Medicare set. Half way through our meal, a young man walked up to our table and shook hands with both of us. While he held Mike’s right hand in his, he softly spoke a few words in Spanish to Mike. I soon learned he had requested that Mike honor him with a bendicion, or blessing. Mike’s response, “dios te bendiga,” was received with a nod, smile, and “gracias.”  What a wonderful way of showing respect for the older citizens  of one’s society. Have any of you had a similar experience where you were brought up, live, or vacation today?

3 Responses

  1. I grew up in the same culture. Olders are the source Of history, and they diserved respect. Thank you for your important blog.

  2. That’s truly a nice story. I’ve never heard of such a custom. I’ll be eager to read more comments on your blog regarding this.

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